Skip The Pain and Feel Your Best Now!
Break your partner's control,
heal your trauma
and build insane strength and confidence in absolutely no time and zero effort.
Hi, I'm May Abougabal
Owner of Wakefield Therapy and
specializing in healing controlling relationship trauma.
I’m offering you deep intensive therapy that will help you break your partner's control,
heal your trauma,
and build insane strength and confidence to do anything you set your mind to.
I’ll take your hand and walk you, shoulder to shoulder, to a whole new reality.
Not only the person overpowering you will no longer be a concern,
but you’ll open up to life with crazy motivation to level up and do things you never thought possible.
If you’re satisfied with where you're now, then you’re blessed,
and I’m truly happy for you.
But if you’ve been living resentful, traumatized, and stuck,
I want you to know that it’s not a life sentence.
You can heal and make the rest of your life the best of your life.
The sweet part is that healing doesn’t have to take months or years;
it can happen so fast, just in a matter of a few hours or even less.
let me take a minute here to tell you about some of the brilliant benefits of therapy:
You'll fall in love with the person in the mirror.
No more feeling stuck,
Your motivation will go through the roof.
Now that your energy isn't stagnant, you'll feel more alive to take action and make more money.
You’ll go after your goals and dreams with passion and determination,
and nothing will hold you back.
Weakness is gone, replaced with genuine strength,
and anxiety is replaced with pure serenity.
You’ll improve your relationship if it can be improved,
and disconnect from the toxic ones that will not change.
And while you're too busy rebuilding yourself inside out,
your partner’s bossy behavior will naturally balance out.
You'll be the superhero parent your children deserve –
stronger, better, turning every defeat into a victory story.
And if your relationship has already ended,
you'll get over the hurt, heal the trauma, and stand on your feet.
You'll have the motivation and strength to pursue your goals with nothing holding you back.
You’ll attract the right person,
no more controllers,
just someone who lets you be your badass, independent self.
Supportive, nurturing, hilarious,
and adoring every inch of you for who you are.
You’ll feel absolutely free.
Why Should You Listen To A Single Word I Have To Say?
I’m an expert in what I do.
I've been in this field since 2016,
and I've been working globally with people from all over the world,
English or Arabic speakers,
regardless of their background.
I'm not just certified in hypnotherapy;
I'm also a certified practitioner of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP).
I’m a specialist in anxieties, fears, pain management, trauma recovery, grief recovery, smoking cessation, and ADHD.
I proudly hold the title of Master Advanced Conversational Hypnotherapist.
That's a mouthful, right?
It means I've got all the tools and skills up my sleeve to help you overcome your challenges
and become the person you’ve always dreamed of.
How am I different?
My therapy is very deep and powerful.
I’ll find the answers to why this problem first came your way,
and why are you stuck in it ?
I’ll tackle your problem from all angle,
untying as many knots as humanly possible until the problem disappears.
Most importantly,
I pay attention to the minute details and I spend a good chunk of my session aggressively testing my results.
That’s how I guarantee they will become second nature to you.
You’ll be as strong as steel;
no matter how life challenges you,
you’re always ready.
Funny enough,
when I ask my clients at the end of the session
“so, what is the problem now?”
it’s almost always the same answer.
They scratch their heads in surprise and say,
“there wasn’t a problem!!!”
You won’t feel like you’re sitting with your therapist.
I’m just a human being interested in and curious about your story.
We’ll have a mind-blowing, life-changing conversation.
I know how to make every cell of you work toward achieving your goals.
Who's this for :
-This is for you if time isn't a luxury and you want to heal your trauma and lifelong stress-related symptoms to immediately get back on track, strong, motivated, and energized.
- If you're stuck in a relationship with a control freak and you're feeling traumatized and clueless about your next move.
- If you've a domineering family and you're itching to find some healing.
- If you suffered from being controlled , but you realized you've also got some control freak tendencies.
- If you've just walked away from a controlling relationship and you're looking to heal your trauma, stand on your feet, and move forward.
- If you're a control freak but you've got a burning desire to switch things up and change your ways.
How does it work:
1- Done for you:
I’ll do the heavy lifting for you. You don’t need to do a single thing; I've got you covered.
I will NOT give you a 10-module self improvement course that takes ages to complete.
Instead, I'll take you by the hand
and walk you through everything,
side by side.
All you need to do is sit back, relax, and tell me your story.
2- Fast, Fast, Fast:
Unlike traditional therapy, which takes a long time to see results,
my therapy delivers immediate, trackable results.
My clients often report that my therapy is the only one that truly clicked with them.
They've spent years with other therapists without achieving the kind of results they experienced after just one session with me.
I want you to get back to your normal life as soon as possible,
where you will not need me anymore.
My work significantly shortens the therapy duration,
so no more wasting money and time on things that don’t work.
3- Permanent results:
my results stand the test of time,
and there are two reasons for that:
A. I will not hand out tips or pre-packaged answers and theories.
Therapists who are doing that aren’t doing you any favors.
That's shallow therapy that will not lead to lasting changes.
My goal is to uproot your negative beliefs and tackle whatever keeps you stuck.
Once that happens, the problem melts away like an ice cube on a hot, sunny day.
B. I test my results like crazy
because if I don’t,
the whole world will be testing you the moment you step out of the session.
I'm all about delivering rock-solid results,
so when you leave, you're insanely prepared to face whatever life throws your way.
4- Stopwatch-Free Therapy:
I'm all about going the extra mile to make sure you feel comfy and secure.
And as for time,
while other therapists in the mental health field are clock-watchers,
that's not my style.
I will not rush you out the door for the next client, Nope.
Your session is gonna stretch as long as it needs to tackle whatever on your plate.
5- Virtual sessions:
virtual sessions were proven to be as effective, or sometimes more effective than in-person ones.
We’ll meet via Zoom video in the comfort of your home
with no prior preparation and no time wasted.
And since my sessions are very intense,
you’ll need to rest afterwards,
and having the session in the comfort of your home allows you to do that perfectly.
You don’t need a Zoom account; just click the link emailed shortly after booking,
and if you can’t find it, remember to check your spam folder.
6- How many sessions will you need:
That’s very individual, and every client is a unique case.
Besides, it’s not healthy to tell you I'm gonna fix your problem in x number of sessions.
In this case,
you may subconsciously hold off fixing your problem until the last session,
when in fact,
your problem could be fixed in just one hour.
So what I would prefer is to go session by session.
We’ll meet and start therapy right away, and you may not need more than one session.
But hey,
I only have a limited number of therapy sessions.
And that’s for one big reason:
I only take one client a day.
I work closely and intensively with my clients so they can see results quickly.
I want to give the best of my knowledge and experience to each client.
You’ll have my undivided attention.
I will not rush you for the next client, it’s quite the opposite, your session will stretch as much as we need to get things done.
Free 30 Min Strategy Call
To book a free 30 min strategy call, please use the link below.
You'll be guided to select a good time for you,
then you'll need to answer a few questions to confirm your booking.
Shortly after booking,
you'll receive an email containing the link for the meeting.
When it's time for the meeting,
simply click the link provided in the email.
If you can't find the email, please check your spam folder.
Additionally,
you'll receive text or email reminders for our appointment,
so please keep an eye on your spam folder if you can't find them.
For any questions,
the best way to contact me is through email:
I'll reply within 24h
Let’s Talk About Your Objections
Now, can a wild healing transformation really happen in just a few hours or less?
Absolutely!
If you throw in the right stuff,
not just that it can happen super fast, it's crazy easy,
zero effort needed.
Let me break it ALL down for you.
Ever heard about hypnotherapy?
You may think, hypnotherapy?!!
Hell no, that’s not for me.
Ok, I’m gonna break this in two parts:
first, I'll tell you why I swear by hypnotherapy as your best and safest choice,
especially when it comes to self-improvement and emotional healing;
and second, what might have gone wrong if it didn't quite work for some people.
So, why I believe hypnotherapy is your best and safest choice.
You’ve probably heard a lot of myths about hypnotherapy,
but as they say,
“when there are multiple theories to explain something, the simplest one is often the most accurate.”
In its simplest and most accurate form,
hypnotherapy is just two words: “hypno” and “therapy”.
'Hypno' is connecting with the subconscious mind,
and 'therapy' is guiding it to make a change.
What's so special about connecting with your subconscious?
Can you recall a time when you tried to make a change in your life, get rid of a bad habit or adopt a new one?
Did you feel like a part of you was resisting and holding you back so strongly that you ended up stuck doing nothing or,
even worse,
bouncing right back to the old habit you were trying to change?
Well, that resistance is your subconscious in play.
But why would your subconscious resist you?
As we stated before, your mind has two parts:
the subconscious, which physically takes up 90% of your mind,
and the conscious, which grabs the leftover 10%.
The subconscious is where all the actions happen;
it has programs for everything:
walking, running, standing, habits, values, beliefs, concepts, self-image, etc.
It’s also so powerful,
with an infinite memory storing all your life experiences since you were in the womb.
It never sleeps, not even a nap;
it’s working for you 24 hours a day, all your life.
Behind the scenes,
it handles millions of involuntary functions like sweating, digestion, fighting germs,
healing, heart beating,
and muscle coordination, just to name a few.
Your subconscious is like a maestro orchestrating a perfect symphony,
ensuring all these functions work in harmony,
no mistakes.
Your subconscious works in programs,
and any program is like a wish that MUST be granted.
It directly influences your behavior.
It just happens easily, naturally,
without forcing or straining.
Let’s say you wanna lose weight and you know exactly what you should do.
You know how to count your calories.
You've got the perfect meal plan,
a gym membership,
and the fanciest protein shake you can buy.
You're doing great for a week or so, sticking to the plan,
but suddenly,
you find yourself binging and skipping the gym.
What happened is that all those stuff you did were logical,
conscious stuff.
while they are great and important,
but remember,
your conscious is just 10% of your mind.
You’ve only tackled 10% of the equation;
what about the remaining 90%?!!!
You could be acing all the logical stuff,
but if you haven’t changed that subconscious program,
you’re getting no where.
If your subconscious still sees you as a big eater,
that’s a wish to be granted;
you’ll eat that chocolate cake or bag of chips
easily and effortlessly
despite your great plans.
Rule of thumb,
when you have a conflict where you consciously want something but your subconscious wants the opposite,
the subconscious always wins and dominates.
Imagine when 90% of your mind is working against you;
it’s no wonder you’re feeling stuck.
In no time,
you’re back to overeating and lounging on the couch like a pro.
Your subconscious is resisting you, holding onto that old habit for a reason.
There might be an emotional benefit connected to it,
which we call the "payoff" or the root cause.
Until we find that payoff and address it,
your subconscious will keep clutching onto that old habit or negative belief.
For example,
overeating might be connected to feelings of guilt or using layers of fat as a social shield.
Your subconscious is basically saying,
“No, you can’t lose that weight.
I have a good reason for that,
and I want the best for you.
But if you fix that reason,
I'll loosen my grip,
and I will not resist you;
even better,
I’ll make losing that weight my next to be granted goal.”
You have to take care of that so your subconscious doesn’t resist you and work in harmony with your conscious.
Instead of just moving toward your goal with 10% of your power,
the other 90% jumps in,
and every cell of your being is moving toward achieving your goal with nothing holding you back.
So, what do we know so far?
By now, we know that:
1-The subconscious works in programs.
2-These programs are wishes to be absolutely granted;
they shape, steer, and dictate your behavior, even though many are counterproductive.
3-The subconscious is keeping these programs running for a reason.
could be merely because you made it a priority and kept doing stuff on repeat, or
there's a benefit you’re getting (we call it the "payoff") ,
and you might not even know it.
4-The subconscious is the big boss, and it always gets the final say.
5-If you consciously have a wish in mind that doesn’t line up with the subconscious programming,
you’ll be faced with great resistance.
It’ll either keep you stuck or regress you back to the old program or behavior.
Considering all of this,
it's pretty clear that for genuine and long-lasting change,
we've got to bring the subconscious on board.
It's a must, and there’s no way around that.
The key is to connect with the subconscious and guide it to work in harmony with your conscious towards the same goals.
This is essential for a successful change.
Rather than having a part of you resist the change,
your whole self goes all in,
making those goals happen faster and smoother than you ever thought possible.
That was the answer to the first part.
The second part:
why it might not have worked for some people.
Let me walk you through a traditional session and tell you where exactly it went wrong.
A session is usually divided into 3 parts.
The first part is for breaking the ice
and making you familiar with your therapist.
The second part is when you start talking about your problem and what you want out of the session,
and the therapist starts writing down what you’re saying word for word.
Then the third part is when the hypnotherapist puts you into a trance state,
which is a sleep-like state,
but you still have awareness.
In this state,
your mind is receptive and open to suggestions.
The hypnotherapist literally reinforces,
word for word,
what you wanted earlier in the second part,
but with some tweaking.
For example,
if you came for a smoking problem,
the suggestions would be something like:
"You hate smoking," "Smoking stinks,"
"You can't stand the smell of a cigarette,"
and "You're a non-smoker.”
Once the client snaps out of trance,
the therapist wraps up the session,
and they just let the client head out without testing the results and checking if things really shifted.
The therapist is pretty much aware these changes wouldn’t stand a test,
so they treat the client like a fine china that shouldn’t be touched,
like one wrong move will break the spell.
Soon enough,
the client finds out that nothing much has really changed.
Where did this session go wrong?
The problem is that while the therapist may have nailed the “hypno” part
but he wasn’t that good in the “therapy” one.
Simply feeding your client word for word isn’t true therapy.
It might work for some,
but others have much deeper issues.
Plus the therapist assumed his client knew what the problem was,
which is far from the truth.
Clients aren't aware of what's going on with them;
they're just describing what they've noticed
or taking their best guesses.
Take smoking, for example.
Smoking isn't the problem; it's merely a symptom,
merely the tip of the iceberg.
It's a surface manifestation of a deeper underlying issue.
It could be linked to loneliness or other emotional needs.
Fix that root problem,
and they’ll drop the habit without cravings or
in other words, without resistance.
The therapist MUST find the positive intentions behind the resistance,
the thing that's keeping you stuck in those bad habits or negative thoughts.
Failing to do so will not yield lasting results and clients slide back to old habits.
The subconscious at it’s core is a life preserving machine.
It operates behind the scenes like an ever-watchful guardian,
making sure we stay safe and sound.
Its main job is to protect us from harm,
be it a physical threat, emotional distress, or any other danger.
Sometimes It fights us in a harsh, aggressive way
but that’s tough-love style.
There’s always a positive intention behind it related to our safety and the preservation of our lives.
Ignoring this positive intention (the "payoff") gets you no where.
I once had a client with a crazy back pain,
which turned out to be her body's way of sending a message: she needed to rest.
She had been pushing herself too hard,
busting herself in work and caring for others.
Her fear of being judged stopped her from taking breaks.
Her subconscious in it’s tough love way
used pain to force her to rest without being judged.
Knocking out two birds with one stone,
cause no one will judge her when she’s resting for pain.
Once we identified and addressed the positive intention,
her back pain disappeared,
and it only took 90 minutes!
If I had given her direct suggestions to numb the pain,
not only would her subconscious have rejected them,
but she might have missed the message her body was sending
which was vital to her well being.
How am I different?
My therapy is very deep and powerful.
I’ll find the answers to why this problem first came your way,
and why are you stuck in it ?
I’ll tackle your problem from all angle,
untying as many knots as humanly possible until the problem disappears.
Most importantly,
I pay attention to the minute details and I spend a good chunk of my session aggressively testing my results.
That’s how I guarantee they will become second nature to you.
You’ll be as strong as steel;
no matter how life challenges you,
you’re always ready.
Funny enough,
when I ask my clients at the end of the session
“so, what is the problem now?”
it’s almost always the same answer.
They scratch their heads in surprise and say,
“there wasn’t a problem!!!”
You won’t feel like you’re sitting with your therapist.
I’m just a human being interested in and curious about your story.
We’ll have a mind-blowing, life-changing conversation.
I know how to make every cell of you work toward achieving your goals.
I love working with my clients;
I enjoy every minute of it because I believe I’ve got the best job in life.
For me,
therapy is all about the wholeheartedly genuine happiness that lights up my clients’ faces by the end of the session.
A big shift from when they first walk in,
looking serious, sad, and teary.
If I could snap a picture of that happiness,
it'd be saying,
"I'm not stuck any more; now I have hope.
I'm all kinds of happy, curious, and pumped up,
just like a fresh little baby."
I want you to be as happy and open to life as these people;
that's entirely achievable and it's one click away.
Reserve your spot here.
By now,
you've probably connected the dots and figured out where your problem began,
leading you to this place of sadness, resentment, trauma, and feeling stuck.
However,
you also understand that it doesn't have to stay this way;
it can easily change if you choose to heal.
so let’s make that happen.
I’m offering you deep intensive therapy that will help you
break your partner's control,
heal your trauma, and
build insane strength and confidence to do anything you set your mind to.
Not only the person overpowering you will no longer be a concern,
but you'll also open up to life with crazy motivation to grow and achieve things you never thought possible.
